6 years ago I was extremely curious but terrified to explore with men. I opened up a Grindr account on a whim as a poor Attempt to scratch that itch. After months of setting up meets with different guys and chickening out. I finally said fuck it and met much older man at his home after we had been chatting for awhile. I was 39. He was 65. He was very polite and understanding. So I said why not. I’ll meet him. And just say hi. There is no harm in that. Well the first meet went great we had a good chat and some laughs. Then he leaned in and kissed me. Before I knew it I was in his bed. And we had the most passionate sensual sex I’ve ever experienced. I kept going back. For 6 years. Just amazing sex. Until his health deteriorated this last spring and he had to end things. He was my first and last experience. I miss him like a lot. He is the reason for me having the guts to even consider being here. It was truly the most purist form of intimacy two men could have. If I never find that again. I will be content in knowing that for a time in my life I had something truly great.
thanks for letting me spill my heart on here. I really miss him. I might be grieving lol. 😂
TheEthicalAddict …. Fet
Well if it helps I met a similar type of partner at SW. had been a few times and I was there really just to explore dressing as a CD. When we first saw each other the sparks flew. I ended up in his room and it was amazing we just clicked. He has taken me back a few times and has met so many of my fantasies it’s amazing. Maybe you will find another guy to suit you.
This is true, it may not happen right away though, I think it was my third or fourth time when I met him
I always prefer to go with the flow and let the chips fall where they may. I’m not looking for love just good chemistry.
TheEthicalAddict …. Fet
Same here, I went originally to express myself and see if any chemistry came up between myself and the other guys around. Sometimes it worked sometimes it didn’t
Well this forum is really helping me shake off my nerves of putting myself out there. It definitely seems to be a supportive community here. From what I’ve been reading in the forum. I just need winter to hit hard so I have free time to come and see for myself.
TheEthicalAddict …. Fet
The forum is a great place to start chatting and letting people know where you’re at. When you have some time off of work head down there and just enjoy the environment, lots of places to just meet and chat and go from there
No problem at all, it’s all good and hope you find what you’re looking for when you get there. My email is in my profile if you care to chat more
Go and have fun, you just never know what may happen and who you meet up with. I went maybe 1/2 dozen times then I met an awesome guy. We have become great friends, benefits included. I never thought I would meet someone so great. Always thought when I went it would be one time fuck and never to see them again kinda thing, never long term. I was so wrong thankfully. We both still go occasionaly to SW's occasionally as.
Bionikcock1 😛
@bionikcock1 haha. Just call me fresh meat walking. lol. I definitely appreciate the advice. It’s really taking the edge off
TheEthicalAddict …. Fet
Fuck it I’m coming. Hopefully tomorrow or weds afternoon. As long as my schedule stays clear. Pray for cold weather lol.
TheEthicalAddict …. Fet
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