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(@happygolucky)
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  1. My first visit was unfortunately a disaster. I came through the door and was greatly surprised on how cool the place was. The staff gave me a quick tour and I went to my room to prepare.  I went to the slurp ramp and found a great cock to suck, not my first but I don't have lots of experience and was really nervous.  I then made my way to fuck alley and found a older gentleman who I fucked for a few amazing minutes ( my first )until the moment was ruined by a pushy gentleman. He was told we wanted my first top experience to just be us, which he ignored and basically stuffed his cock in the face of the man I was fucking.  This ruined the moment for me and I went for a quick shower and then into the steam room. While sitting in the dark a man sat next to me and we played with each other and were talking , I was telling him what I wanted to try. The pushy dude who wrecked my first fuck showed up again ( I was feeling stocked)   and stood in front of us while I was enjoying a  mutual handjob. He surprised us both by turning around and tried sitting on me and grinding me. He tried to push me inside him unprotected,  I pushed him off and left the steam area, showered again and went straight to my room and hid out for a while. I ended up leaving. I want to try again , hopefully he was not the norm of the Sunday afternoon crowd......
 
Posted : 01/03/2023 12:18 am
Piercedboi
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  1. Wow. Sory u had such a bad first experience. Don't give up, it is definitely not like that all the time.

Piercedboi

 
Posted : 01/03/2023 9:26 am
BiGuy
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Definitely not what one should expect. You will encounter guys like that, and we have seen the ladies on here reporting about pushy and rude dudes. However, if you have already said no, then this guy should have respected your no. I was in a similar situation once. After I said no, I found someone to play with. The guy showed up again, and I was very firm and told him that no means no and if he insists that I would report him to staff. His reply was that he wasn't playing with me, but playing with the other guy that I was currently with. I told him that was bullshit and get the hell away or he would get reported.

Don't give up on SW because of one jerk. Just like life, you will come across jerks, but it is not the norm.

 
Posted : 01/03/2023 8:33 pm
7inchwondercock
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Don't ever hesitate to tell them no. And if they still don't listen. Fuck off. Then if you have to stop. Go tell staff asap. Point him out. A d he will be removed from the club 

7inch

 
Posted : 01/03/2023 11:07 pm
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