Well, I finally made it in this past Saturday, with the encouragement of a member I met through my First Timer Q&A post. I went by myself, and got a room as people suggested. For some confidence, I did wear a chest harness, no underwear.
For the first little while, I wandered around, spent some time in the hot tub, chatted with someone in the lounge. One or two men stopped to speak to me and ask if I had a room and wanted to go back to it, but I wasn't sure yet what my expectations were, or what I was looking for in particular. Then, I wandered into fuck alley and saw (several) someones on the bed, and then later in the swing; and I knew that was what I was looking for. After wandering some more, things had quieted down, and I found myself back in fuck alley, looking at the empty swing. A man came in behind me and asked if I'd ever been in one, I said no, and he asked if I wanted to try it. I agreed, he helped me in, and then the best part of my night started.
What began as one partner quickly became several, with men coming up to stand beside me while I was getting fucked, playing with my tits, having me jerk them off or suck on their fingers. I did insist everyone wear a condom. One man in particular was very respectful, asking every step of the way if he could touch me, fuck me, etc. I said yes, of course, and he fucked me so hard and so long I'm pretty sure I had an out of body experience. 10/10 stars, an amazing ride. I lost count of how long I was in the swing and the number of orgasms, but by the time I absolutely needed a break, my legs were so shakey that I stumbled to the downstairs to shower, and went back to my room to lay down for a while and recover... and think about trying to find that guy again lol
When I felt sufficiently recovered, I cracked the door to my room. Someone asked to come in, I agreed, and we also fucked. However, after he left, another man just walked in and climbed up on the bed. He tried to get between my legs immediately, with no condom on. I said no, and to his credit he did back off. He asked where he could get a condom, and I told him there was a dispenser in the hall. When he exited, presumably to go find one, I shut and locked the door. I felt like that encounter was my cue to end my night, so I got dressed and headed out.
Overall, I had a great time - several longstanding fantasies were fulfilled, I had lots of orgasms, and now I know the layout and how everything works. I do see the appeal in having a partner or FWB there with you to help safeguard your wishes, and to cuddle with after an intense experience. I will be back, maybe arrange to meet some people there ahead of time, and have more new experiences. I still haven't tried the fuck hole, or the gloryholes, so lots of fantasies left to check off.
Need to report those who try to bareback to staff. While they're few and far between. Guys who try that while knowing condoms are required need to be reported so they can be removed from the club. Just some info for your next visit
Well, I finally made it in this past Saturday, with the encouragement of a member I met through my First Timer Q&A post. I went by myself, and got a room as people suggested. For some confidence, I did wear a chest harness, no underwear.
For the first little while, I wandered around, spent some time in the hot tub, chatted with someone in the lounge. One or two men stopped to speak to me and ask if I had a room and wanted to go back to it, but I wasn't sure yet what my expectations were, or what I was looking for in particular. Then, I wandered into fuck alley and saw (several) someones on the bed, and then later in the swing; and I knew that was what I was looking for. After wandering some more, things had quieted down, and I found myself back in fuck alley, looking at the empty swing. A man came in behind me and asked if I'd ever been in one, I said no, and he asked if I wanted to try it. I agreed, he helped me in, and then the best part of my night started.
What began as one partner quickly became several, with men coming up to stand beside me while I was getting fucked, playing with my tits, having me jerk them off or suck on their fingers. I did insist everyone wear a condom. One man in particular was very respectful, asking every step of the way if he could touch me, fuck me, etc. I said yes, of course, and he fucked me so hard and so long I'm pretty sure I had an out of body experience. 10/10 stars, an amazing ride. I lost count of how long I was in the swing and the number of orgasms, but by the time I absolutely needed a break, my legs were so shakey that I stumbled to the downstairs to shower, and went back to my room to lay down for a while and recover... and think about trying to find that guy again lol
When I felt sufficiently recovered, I cracked the door to my room. Someone asked to come in, I agreed, and we also fucked. However, after he left, another man just walked in and climbed up on the bed. He tried to get between my legs immediately, with no condom on. I said no, and to his credit he did back off. He asked where he could get a condom, and I told him there was a dispenser in the hall. When he exited, presumably to go find one, I shut and locked the door. I felt like that encounter was my cue to end my night, so I got dressed and headed out.
Overall, I had a great time - several longstanding fantasies were fulfilled, I had lots of orgasms, and now I know the layout and how everything works. I do see the appeal in having a partner or FWB there with you to help safeguard your wishes, and to cuddle with after an intense experience. I will be back, maybe arrange to meet some people there ahead of time, and have more new experiences. I still haven't tried the fuck hole, or the gloryholes, so lots of fantasies left to check off.
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thinking about going tomorrow or saturday if you would like to join me let me know.
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