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Cozima
(@cozima)
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Been wanting to visit for a while, starting to think I won't find a friend to accompany me - so I was wondering if people have advice for solo women?

Is there anything etiquette-wise that's expected to not be, like....in the way? 

 

 
Posted : 03/05/2023 9:07 pm
Cozima
(@cozima)
Posts: 16
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Oh, and to add - I found the general newbie FAQs! There's such helpful stuff on here. More wondering about etiquette, safety, friendliness tips for being solo and maybe a bit shy 😅

 
Posted : 03/05/2023 9:17 pm
PhotoguyAB
(@photoguyab)
Posts: 78
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Hi there and welcome.  Well getting to know people that frequent SW is helpful.  If you want a friend I'm always willing to meet new people.  

Don't be afraid to talk to staff, especially if your encountering any issues while your there.

 
Posted : 03/05/2023 9:57 pm
(@nervousone)
Posts: 26
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@cozima I have not been yet either I cannot find someone to get going with. If you would like we could experience our first time together! Email me! 
graysonj026@gmail.com

 
Posted : 03/05/2023 9:59 pm
7inchwondercock
(@7inchwondercock)
Posts: 354
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Hello. I am sorry of the "hall monitor" for sw. Basicly I walk about. Being sure everyone treats everyone with respect and courtesy. I will be attending Saturday evening if you wish to have a tour. And I can go over the basic club etiquette. But my pointers I will make for you are as follows. 

 

1. Bring footware (flip flops are great). 

2. Ladies automatically get a room 

3. Closed door are for privacy. If your door is ajsr. That can be taken as an invite to either watch or join you. 9

4. Most gents will ask permission. Some will not for touching. We do have signage that states never touch without permission.  

5. Be sure you know exactly what you are looking for / wanting. No means no 

6. Stalking is prohibited but some gents still follow. If you tell them not interested and they continue come grab me (if I'm there) or notify staff. It will be dealt with. 

7 no sexual contact of any form in the hot tub (mandatory showers before entering) 

8. For your first time the upstairs lounge. And downstairs hot tub area are perfect for mingling. 

9.  Any and ALL gentlemen not obeying the rules or being overly aggressive. We ask that you report them. Point them out to staff so they can get their "ONE" warning or be removed and banned from the club. And banned if they're repeat offenders. 

The club does provide a clean towel for you. And it's not recommended walking around clothed as you may be mistaken for staff. 

Hope this has helped. Any other info you need you can email me @ hellifiknow1974@hormail.com. 

Welcome to steamchat. And maybe see you at the club. 

7inch

 
Posted : 03/05/2023 10:51 pm
Girthwormjim
(@girthwormjim)
Posts: 26
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I would love to meet you there for my first time as well. Trying to build up courage 💪💪

 
Posted : 04/05/2023 1:33 am
(@Anonymous 123)
Posts: 39
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I would enjoy helping you make your first time enjoyable. Loving your profile picture look sexy as hell there😜. I find myself to be more of a dom so I fel we would click well in that department. Look forward to catching you one if these days 

 
Posted : 04/05/2023 7:19 am
Cozima
(@cozima)
Posts: 16
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@7inchwondercock thank you so much, this is really helpful!! I'll email you - I'm guessing that's a typo for Hotmail and not a sex version? 😂

 
Posted : 04/05/2023 8:21 am
Foxilymanner reacted
(@Anonymous 36)
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@cozima I also have gone with other members for their first times, it's nice to have another lady with you who knows the ropes.  You can feel free to add me to snap peachypie2222

 

Just a heads up to everyone else I do not like blind friend requests on snap and I will block you if you do not ask. 

 
Posted : 04/05/2023 12:57 pm
420mama and Drtylttlscrt reacted
(@Anonymous 36)
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Like wow... #consentissexy how many of you are gonna just add my snap and not say anything.... so rude 

 
Posted : 04/05/2023 2:50 pm
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Pagan4Fun
(@pagan4fun)
Posts: 148
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@Cozima, love the notion to go for the first time (exciting) and would love to be there when you do. Email me sometime. 😉👍

 
Posted : 04/05/2023 2:59 pm
(@Anonymous 35)
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@peachypie should always give my information. They wouldn't do that to me. Also shoots down any chance they may have had .

 
Posted : 04/05/2023 3:08 pm
(@Anonymous 36)
Posts: 48
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@sirhc you're so right.  Learned a lesson

 
Posted : 04/05/2023 3:30 pm
(@ikyeg)
Posts: 4
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@Cozima i have been there couple of my but my lady friend is still afraid to try for her first time. I was curious if you are interested in get to know each other and go there together one day. You can email me at nwolf.issac@gmail.com 

@PeachyPie may I add you on snap if you dont mind?

 
Posted : 04/05/2023 4:09 pm
(@Anonymous 36)
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@ikyeg thank you for asking however I'm directing everyone through @sirhc at this point

 
Posted : 04/05/2023 6:00 pm
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