My partner(19M) and I(18F) are looking to come for the first time in the relatively near future. We want to experiment with public sex and possible threesomes and group sex. Obviously that is not a full or extensive list but just so you have a general idea.
Is the room cost the entry fee? Or is there a seperate entry fee outside of room cost? If so how much? I also saw in a earlier post that the room fee is per person, is this still applied? And if it is, if my partner and I went, would the room price then be doubled as we would both be using it?
I have also seen that women automatically get a room, does this mean the fee is not there, or that women are not allowed in without paying for a room?
Another question, what would you guys say is the best room for a couple who is unsure what they will be fully comfortable with? We want to try this but are unsure how actually comfortable we will be with the experience so want to make sure we set ourselves up right!
Sorry for the ridiculous amount of questions but want to make sure we bring enough money and also know what we should ask for!
hello me (m23) and my gf (f22) came this past friday. she got a free room and i had to pay for a locker and a deposit aswell as room deposit. we just got a single room and opened the door a crack for people who wanted to watch. you are going to have a lot of people following you probably, and it can definitely get a bit much at times. but if you feel flustered you can just go back to your room and relax. we are in the same boat as you and didn't really know what we wanted to try, threesome is definitely on our list but didn't go through with it.
kik:freekeycouple24
saturday sorry
kik:freekeycouple24
Thank you so much for the response!! That helps a lot! I do have a few follow up questions!
Not that we weren't expecting this, but people following, were they typically older? And were they respectful about following, not following super close or weirdly far? Not that it isn't welcome! I(18F) just sometimes have problems with people(mainly men) following behind me cause of past experiences so want to know what I should prepare myself for! 🙂
How was your first time going, was saturday very full? Have you been to one of these spaces before or was that your first time?
We will definitely do this once we go at least once with probably just us, as I said in my first message we have never been to a swingers club or anything similar, so for our first time going I think we are just going to get a feel for everything!
We aren't shy about talking about our sex life to people but obviously going and having sex around and possibly with others will be super different! But we are super excited!
@a-n-j it was our first time to anything like this. we went at around 7 and stayed till about 9:30. sometimes people were following a little bit close but people were respectful. obviously no groping or anything like that and had people ask if they could join us. when you show up, staff will give you a tour. the people following were pretty much all older men. we still enjoyed the experience and plan on coming back. we should try to find a time to come at the same time if you're interested! would be nice to see some people around our age there
kik:freekeycouple24
@freakycouple24 - yep, your experience is typical. The key issue is the f/m ratio. If it is a very small fraction then the scene is a bit sad imho. I say this as an old dude who is mostly a voyeur. I do not like to be a part of the pack of "mature" men who follow a chick as if she was their teacher in the kindergarten. It is what it is but...
@a-n-j It is not packed. Summertime, vacation time.
But since it is summer and warm and practically no bugs - dogging is an option.
Imho, more natural and spontaneous way of public sex. Especially for newbies like you guys
@felek yeah, didn't seem like anyone was engaging in their own things, and were more focused on us and what we were doing.
kik:freekeycouple24
Thanks! I think we might take up your offer depending on how we enjoy our first visit! I think we want to do our first visit "alone"(as alone as we feel like at the time lol), then see where we feel!
Different rooms have different pricing. And also different on different days. (If that makes sense) I would look at the sw price page to decide what day and what room you'd like. Different days have different specials. Also will depend how busy you are wanting it to be. As for just allowing others to watch. I would recommend the jail cell room. You can open the sliding door but no one can touch . Newbie day Monday. Couples day Thursday. And ladies night Saturday are the days I'd suggest you go for your first visit
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