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What’s the best way to get over the first time jitters.  I’ve wanted to go for a while now but can’t get the courage to walk through the door.  Does anyone have helpful tips on getting over the hump?

Posted : 08/09/2023 11:51 am
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What’s the best way to get over the first time jitters.  I’ve wanted to go for a while now but can’t get the courage to walk through the door.  Does anyone have helpful tips on getting over the hump?

Bring a friend is the best way. Get a room when you get inside so u can compose yourself. And don't overthink.



Posted : 08/09/2023 1:18 pm
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Give yourself permission to leave almost immediately. There will be nobody inside the door that will force you to stay. Simply go in with the knowledge that you can leave anytime you like. Getting a room will increase your comfort. Have a plan when you enter, don’t just sit in your room hiding. Go and go have a shower sit in the hot tub for five minutes, it’s a great spot just sit and get your bearings. Always remind yourself you can leave at anytime. Go enjoy yourself and try to cast away any hesitation, again you can leave at anytime.


Posted : 08/09/2023 1:33 pm
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@jimb great advice for all newbies 👍

Posted : 08/09/2023 2:05 pm
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The way I got up those stairs the first few times was knowing that I was just as new and nervous as others at the very same time, and that I can walk up, walk in, and tour around with no pressure at all, I am the one that decides what I do, when and how I do it….and frankly, once you make in in the door, the urge to explore the maze and see where those sexy sounds are coming from, and seeing so many fun people…hooked!

Posted : 08/09/2023 2:43 pm
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