hello all,
looking to plan my first visit to steam works and really excited to give my first blowjob. Just a little concerned over STIs. I’m new to the scene and wondering if use of condoms for oral is common practice or not so much? Also wondering if catching something through bare glory hole play is common among members or not so much?
thanks so much for any input and can’t wait for my first visit.
Hi Drmantistabaggon,
Do what makes you feel comfortable. The experience of others has no bearing on the likelihood of contracting an STI. So, if your concern of contracting an STI is something you cannot risk, then take whatever actions you need to feel safe. As this is a sex club and there will be intimate physical contact one can never be 100% safe. I won’t go into all the medical aspects but even kissing someone can transmit an STI from one person to another. There are so many variables as to whether one is susceptible to an STI at that specific moment. So if 2 people kiss the same person at the same time, one could contract the STI and the other may not. So enjoy your adventures here and only do what you feel comfortable doing at that moment with that person. I wish you the best and maybe we’ll meat and meat. By the way, STI testing is offered here on pre-announced dates. Check with the staff for the next scheduled date.
Most suck bare. The real question is can you stand the taste of a condom if you are the one going down. Also can you wear a condom and still get hard. Not often I have seen a cock with a condom at a GH. Hope you have fun.
For this reason I’ve not used the gloryholes as myself I lean on the more cautious side in general. I know I haven’t heard of many catching something, it does happen but by no means is it commonplace. However, doesn’t mean it won’t happen to you. Others have suggested bringing a box of flavored condoms with me, and then you can put on. For myself, the appeal is really feeling the actual flesh, so via steamtalk my plan is to find a person or person(s) that I have seen test results or that I feel confident are clean, and make arrangements to have the experience with pre-arranged people. Do what feels right for you ❤️
@milfandcookies most couples are usually clean. That's been our experience anyway. More risk with singles.
The guys I sucked at the glory hole didn’t wear condoms, the guys that fucked me were fine with wearing them. If you want them to wear condoms, just ask. If they don’t want to, move on.
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