Hello, everyone! I am looking to reenter the scene after dabbling briefly long, long ago. I understand Fridays at Steamworks are "men only"...
Does this include trans men? Or would I be better off staying home that evening? While I appreciate inclusiveness, I can also understand if the focus is on cis men. I just wanted to ask before I step on any toes!
I've been on hormones for nearly a decade and have had top surgery, but once my clothes are off I don't really pass as cis, so... lol.
Thanks for the information in advance!
It is my undersanding that if you have a penis you are welcome on Fridays. You will probably get a lot of attention.
@fun-reddeer-2 I don't have a penis, but I identify as a man... So u can kinda understand my confusion here lol. I'm not sure how flexible the definition of "man" here is! Thanks for the advice tho 🙂
You should compkete your profile to clear things up.
@fun-reddeer-2 oh hey that would probably help, huh? Lol, thank you for your patience man. Is this better? 🙂
I think it is something you make have to figure out if/when you go. I've noticed there is a variety of interests so you might be lucky. I myself am for the most part straight with a little bit of curiosity here and there, but again I've observed different people and different desires at SW.
@photoguyab huh!! Okay! Well, thank you so much!! Perhaps I'll wander down on a Tuesday or some such and get the lay of the land first. I'd hate to make someone else uncomfortable or something lol. Thanks!
I don't think you will make anyone uncomfortable it is a very chill and relaxing place.
fridays are you gay. Straight and bi men. Cds / trans etc are not permitted. Nor are women. The club started as gay only. So they are still keeping one day as that. Hope it helps
7inch
@7inchwondercock bisexual transman! I consider myself a man but I also fall under that trans umbrella... I'll play it safe for now and go other days until I have a more clear idea, I think!! Thank you so much for helping me understand, tho, and interesting to learn some history! 🙂
@deathww1sh…there is always Trans Tuesday’s! 😉
@pagan4fun hey that's perfect!! I didn't realize it was still a thing!! Thanks so much 🙂
@deathww1sh…no worries! Maybe I’ll catch ya sometime on one of those Tuesdays! 😉👍
@deathww1sh I'm not a frequent member by any means but in my opinion you should definitely be welcome on either trans Tuesday or men only Friday. If the point of those days is to make specific groups feel comfortable so common sense applies...
fridays are you gay. Straight and bi men. Cds / trans etc are not permitted. Nor are women. The club started as gay only. So they are still keeping one day as that. Hope it helps
7", this is incorrect, you can crossdress in your room if you have rented one on a friday.
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