I can help you out. Are you available to go tomorrow  night. Age and size means nothing you are there to enjoy yourself. Email if you want.

Stonygirl, believe me when I say there will me more attention on you then you can imagine, my advice is to take it slow, figure out what your looking for and do not be afraid to say no if your not comfortable with the situation, just have fun and do not overthink it, wishing  you all the best

@Stonygirl, we will be there this weekend, feel free to drop us a line and we can chat if you want.

Hello. We are a bbw couple (husband and wife) we are in our 40’s and were wondering if you might be interested in meeting up at steamworks or wherever. We both are very oral and have some kinks. eg. pegging role playing bdsm. We love to use toys and hope you have some you would like to play with. Well that’s if you would want to meet? 

@stonygirl First of all you have no need to worry about your body type, we are all attractive in the ways that matter, no one will judge based on our looks, those that would or have certain preferences will keep that to themselves, guaranteed you will attract many interested playmates.

As for being nervous, that is completely natural and expected, so if I may a few suggestions.

I believe it can be a little overwhelming for a woman especially by herself.  That is not to say that you wouldn't be able to atttend by yourself and manage the crowd, but there will be a crowd of followers, for this you need to be firm in your boundaries and rules.

For a first vist you may want to arrange to have a tour guide and you could pick a slower night like a Wednesday. Saturdays are very very busy, very fun but very busy.  You could talk to someone like @7inchwondercock, I know he would be happy to show you around he is very familiar with SW and the staff and good at controling the crowd. Also if you were to dive into the fun he is a good person to ensure that men are wearing condoms and whatever other rules you may have.

Definately get yourself a room so you have a quiet private place to go back to wenever you want to get ready and prepared, to relax and take a moment to get away from the followers, there will be followers.

Having said all that there is definately so much to find to enjoy.  Firstly the hot tub is always a good place to start, taking a dip and talking with people there.  There is the slurp ramp, (a wall of glory holes) where you can indulge if you wanted to please a few, or more cocks, with a degree of separation.  Some of the rooms have incorporated glory holes if you wanted even more control of your surroundings.

Of course if you were more inclined to jump into the deep end there are plenty of things to enjoy, be it fuck alley, a St. Andrews Cross, steam room, sex swings, joining in the Playpen or a couple in the Capitains Room, and many more.

Have fun.

@brian-feller thanks for the mention. As he stayed. I have escorted ladies before for their first visit. Being much older at 50. I do so without expectations. Mondays and Wednesdays are great for first.timers as they are the slower days. Thursdays can get busy and Saturdays are the busiest of the week. If you choose an escort whomever you decide. Be sure.to make your intentions clear for the evening. One MAJOR rule is no means.no. And should only have to be said once. If anyone presses you for more. Tell staff asap. They will deal with said person.

Welcome and incase you haven’t noticed yet no worries about no fitting in. Plenty of interested people. You can reach out to people individually as most of us have contact information in our profile cause in private chat available on this forum.