Well I will not be going back to SW anytime soon for the foreseeable future. I was accused of throwing a condom full of water over the wall of my room 111 into room 110 when I wasn't even in my room but was playing in fuck alley. One of the staff the bigger guy came into fuck alley where I was in the swing and without even saying can I talk to you or something has been brought to our attention his first words were. I threw a condom full of water over the wall and into the room next to mine.
I was treated very unprofessionaly not given an opportunity to talk to the person who accused me of doing something I didn't do. Anytime you are accused of doing anything the person being accused has had the opportunity to confront their accuser. I was actually denied that. And the accuser was protected more then the victim being accused.
I spoke my piece stating that if someone is going to accuse someone if doing something first make sure the person being accused is actually in the room when making accusations I even showed the first attendent that I want even in my room for 20 mins prior to I what I was being accused of doing I was actually being fucked in the swing in fuck alley. And he wouldn't even come out of room to confront me to me that's cowardly.
So @Jim I think your staff needs more training in how to handle such incidents in the future. I have been going there since 2014 and have never been treated like this before. I would think I consider myself one of the more respectful clients of SWs and I'm pretty sure alot of the other visitors would agree. So as if this time I will not be returning to SW and would suggest others be careful as you could be accused of doing things without evidence that it was even you or you even present when such accusations are made.
Good Bye SW
I was there and listened to most of the interaction with the staff and other than hearsay there was no reason for action. And I believe the whole condom over the wall situation was either staged or came over another wall. I believe I will at the very least be taking a break from Steamworks.
It would seem there are a lot of frustrated straight guys now going to Steamworks and not getting their rocks off. Such can easily happen when there are not enough females that are willing to have anon play in such a setting. I do hope that Steamworks can survive all this negativeness.
@felicitator60 there is zero truth to your comment. Stop trying to drivea wedge between people!
@Babygirl I will look into this and get back to you after I have spoken to staff, unfortunately I’m home sick today but I’m hoping to be back at it tomorrow.
@felicitator60 unfortunately this is slightly true. Not many come forth and actually say it though. The last (and first time) I went, I was told there would be many straight couples and ladies, I was respectful, kept boundaries, watched for body language and eye contact, had great conversations and yet it never led anywhere.. all night I was just stalked (literally standing outside my room window peering in) by gay males and a transgender (MtF) which I made clear to both that I’m not interested. Frustrating, very! So I’m on the train to say I probably won’t be returning either since it feels as though my boundaries cannot be kept respectfully while there.
and yes the owners can say there’s no evidence of situations like this but it’s because it seems like nobody comes forwards because they don’t want to be the person to go against the “respect everyone” rule even though the respect isn’t mutual it seems.
@inhumanesiren My wife and I started swinging when we were 38-39. We had a lot of great times but also met a lot of couples where the lady had a lot of attitude. As time went on it seemed to be simpler to just have a 3 some with a willing male. My wife definitely loved it and was very happy. As time went on I got a lot of attention from the men of these 3 somes. I did not think I was bi or gay but as time went on I changed. Now that my wife has passed it is just simpler to go where it is easier to get attention. I find all kinds of married and former married guys in the lifestyle who are now changed as well. Also a lot of ladies that have had their time of life are no longer interested but men of their age definitely are.
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