Hi,
I would be happy to meet with you, show you around and play with you. What time were you planing on visiting the SW? Message me to the email address in profile.
J.
Kuronja10Ed
I’m a 30yr old single female thinking of coming today? Any tips or anyone want to meet up?
hope to see you there.😉
I’m a 30yr old single female thinking of coming today? Any tips or anyone want to meet up?
So, I think its great you asked on here. I actually met with another young woman previously who was in your exact same position. It can be extremely intimidating I think for a young straight woman to attend on her own. There are a lot of men who just "hang around" and follow around, and stare, and it can be very off-putting. Hard to just look and around and relax and get a feel for it without feeling that discomfort. Just be clear if you are approached if you are not wanting to talk or play with anyone at the moment or for the night.
The hottub is a great place to hangout, especially to get to know people in a relaxed way. Make sure to get a room - they are free for ladies (if not sold out) after 3pm saturdays i believe. that way you can always escape back to your room for a while if you feel overwhelmed.
If you wanted company - no expectations for playing or strings attached - i don't mind meeting you at the door and walking you through it, and accompanying you for as long as you feel you need. From experience, it went a long way to help this other woman's comfort level.
I can provide kik or snap or email if you prefer.
@kuronja10ed Around 7? Or next Sat if this one does not work out
So you'll get there. Proceed to the top floor. (entrance is in the back of the building) you'll pay. Enter. You'll go to your room. (ladies automatically get a room). Change. You are given a towel to wear.
Attire options.
Being fully clothed not recommended. (could be mistaken as staff)
Could go naked.
Naked with towel covering you
Lingerie or BDSM outfit
When your in your room. Closed doors mean privacy. Knocking not allowed. If someone knocks and you see who it is. Tell staff. Knocking gets them thrown out asap.
Door rules.
Again closed doors. Do not disturb
Door open a crack and normally an invite to watch.
Door completely open. Is taken as invite to join in room.
While in the club. Main floor has bathrooms. Play areas. Private rooms. And lounging area (no sex in lounging area) a glory hole wall. A public fuck hole. Couple private fuck holes. Glory hole booths.
Downstairs has steam room. Dry sauna. Seating area. Hot tub. Showers. Water fountain couple bathrooms / douche stalls. And a play room with a bed and tvs (porn)
Staff should be able to give you a guided tour provided they're not swamped with check ins. Check outs. Or cleaning duties
I do recommend bringing a partner as a single lady can quickly become overwhelmed. Free condoms are provided. You can purchase lube and toys from the staff.
Get your bearings. Walk around. Explore the club. If you want to strike up conversation. Good places to start are lounge area. And hot tub. (MANDATORY showers before entering hot tub )
Club is in the process of revamping entrance system to try to weed out any and all aggressive guys to make this a safe place for all. (STILL a work in progress).
There will of course be guys that will follow you around. Some will approach for fun. Some will just watch. If you tell them your not interested. Or not ready to play most will back off. For those who press. Tell staff asap. If you have followers. And have asked them to stop. Or said not interested and they continue. That's considered stalking. Again tell staff. Not allowed.
ZERO tolerance for drugs / alcohol / pay for play arrangements. Violators will be told to leave right away.
If you choose to use one of the fuck holes it's highly recommended to have someone stand by watching all the men use condoms (if required) some guests like it without. Some with. Be sure to CLEARLY state your wants wishes and limits.
The biggest thing. NO MEANS NO
Cameras are allowed in private rooms. With consent of everyone in the room. They are not allowed in public areas. Or play areas. Again violators will be told to leave.
I may have missed some but I hope this helps you
7inch
@thisguy Thank You for the in-depth explanation. I am interested in taking you on your offer. What is your kik
I will be attending this evening. As well. I can easily be spotted I always have a black vest on. But nothing else. Have you found someone to accompany you ? I would offer but seems you already have a few offers. Anyways. Maybe we'll cross paths. Say hi. And have fun on your first visit
7inch
@fuckmehardplease Thank you dor replying. Yes, 7 pm would work. Shall we meet someplace else and walk in together? Suggest a meeting place, ok.
Kuronja10Ed
I’m a 30yr old single female thinking of coming today? Any tips or anyone want to meet up?
Hi! Another single gal here!
Saturdays are the busiest day, so can be kinda overwhelming. But the upside of this is that you're more likely to find a guy or two (or ten! No judgement here) that is your type.
Staff are awesome here, and can show you around! The hot tub is definitely amazing for socializing and seeing if people get you excited to play.
Be prepared to tell people you're not interested, repeatedly. Let staff know if you feel uncomfortable and they'll help! 99% of the attendees are awesome and respectful and fun though and are always happy to help whenever I've gotten misplaced and can't find my room. Haha. It's like a fun, sexy maze.
I really do hope you're able to try it out and that you have an amazing time. It's one of my very favorite places although I don't get out as much as I wish I did!
Have fun!!
Send me a note to my email (in profile) so we could arrange details. Ok.
Kuronja10Ed
I am coming to Edmonton on the 13th, definitely want to check out SW for the first time. I really hope there will be a few people there in the afternoon
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