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(@jimnrth)
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Ive been wanting to come and check this place out but im knly in the area for a couple of days and i am quite nervous. Is there anyone that can vouch for thw atmosphere on the weekend? I would love to try the newbie monday but i wont be able to stay in the area until monday. Please message me if you are willing to show a new fella around. Im straight but anyone that is willing to maybe explain some basic table manners to me would be appreciated


 
Posted : 02/10/2025 9:54 pm
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(@jimnrth)
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When were you thinking of going? Im trying to go on saturday for a first time


 
Posted : 02/10/2025 10:14 pm
(@jimnrth)
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From what ive seen on here everyone seems very inviting and relaxed. I am looking forward to just relaxing and meeting some likeminded people


 
Posted : 02/10/2025 10:32 pm
wifelover68
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Also first-time, thinking of going on Saturday.


 
Posted : 03/10/2025 5:27 am
wifelover68
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Lol..that's funny.  My wife is also sending me on a 'scouting' mission.

What time is everyone going?  I was thinking early afternoon'ish...

 

M56, CIS, average build, Straight’ish but curious.

 


 
Posted : 03/10/2025 12:45 pm
Illtryifyouasknice
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@angelsupershy826 Let me know how it goes for you Saturday. Wasn't sure there would be people into the same things. I love to lust after someone and like to be groped. I am shy, am open to just about anything but would really love to explore your body - touch, taste and smell. Gentle thigh caressing is super sexy. I'm new, nervous to go and would love to make you feel absolutely desired. I think we might be looking for the same thing. Hit me up. Maybe you can talk me into going tomorrow. Love to see more of you.


 
Posted : 03/10/2025 7:20 pm
Illtryifyouasknice
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@angelsupershy826 sorry I said something that offended you, it wasn't my intent. Writing isn't my strong point.


 
Posted : 03/10/2025 9:14 pm
Illtryifyouasknice
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I never implied without consent. I said I liked to be groped. I said "I would love/like to' which was meant to see if there was any similar interest. I read your bio and was responding to that more than anything. I am going through something similar and thought we might be looking for something similar. I was mistaken not malicious or aggressive. I apologize again for the misunderstanding, I really didn't mean to make you feel that way. It was really just sent as another person that is looking to feel wanted but that can mean different things to different people but implying I at any point alluded to anything non-consensual is actually quite hurtful. It's very difficult to communicate with people and sometimes I fail but I never approach anyone with ill intent. 


 
Posted : 03/10/2025 9:37 pm
Steve
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It's a very healthy environment.  No shaming, no judgement.  That being said, whatever it is you are looking for, be prepared to say to people in a polite way, no thank you, or I'm new, please give me space, and if anyone is not willing to listen the first time, the staff will gladly intervene and have people leave.  

If you're not sure, ask for a tour, the staff will be good at pointing things out, they will also point out some people that are in the building that will be safe to help you till you're comfortable.  

Bottom line, respect is paramount, your voice will be heard, and people will support you.  Go, explore, enjoy, your pace, a little, a lot, none.  You choose!

Go expecting to be comfortable and to look around.  If something else transpires as your comfort grows, great!

Be firm with your voice when you want to go slow!


 
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