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Went Sunday afternoon. 😉

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PJWinking
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Was great except guy following so close when I turned around I would bump into him. why dont guys understand that is such a turn off for women??? Play it cool- then you may get some fun. 


 
Posted : 09/06/2025 12:31 am
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empathy1
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You are right, I think we should all start with a conversation. It doesn’t matter how long it is. Even a simple “hi”. Instead of being self centred and unaware of how your attitude affects others. 
Glad you had a good time!


 
Posted : 09/06/2025 2:01 am
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Not_My_Bride
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That’s why it’s best to go with an escort. Some of the guys there really shouldn’t be anywhere near women. No thoughts in their heads besides “Duh, girl!”. No class. No manners. 


 
Posted : 09/06/2025 7:35 am
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HotNSteamy
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We were there Sunday afternoon too sometimes you have to be a bitch and tell them to fuck right off and anyone that makes you feel uncomfortable tell the front . They will help with those losers 


 
Posted : 09/06/2025 9:00 am
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PJWinking
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@empathy1 agreed. Say hi. And small talk is even ok. Pick up on the vibe. But dont follow me around that I trip on you when I turn around. Most women will let you know they are interested I feel in this situation.


 
Posted : 09/06/2025 9:25 am
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PJWinking
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@not_my_bride I was with another woman.


 
Posted : 09/06/2025 9:26 am
PJWinking
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@hotnsteamy Ya I will get more bitch attitude next time for sure. More annoying than anything. I definitely need to up my game”no thanks” game and stop following me.


 
Posted : 09/06/2025 9:28 am
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  • Hey stranger how's the yoga going lol

 
Posted : 09/06/2025 9:41 am
empathy1
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@PJwinking Yep, be assertive and let them know immediately if you are not interested. Some may need stronger language, but they will realize they are not welcome. I hope to see you there at some point and I promise not to be creepy 🧟‍♂️


 
Posted : 09/06/2025 11:05 am
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@pjwinking some of them can be really intimidating or just overall pretend they don't understand u , that's when bitch mode kicks in I've even slammed my door on guys not getting it .... I think it's sad they don't.


 
Posted : 09/06/2025 12:02 pm
PJWinking
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@friendly Heyyyyy reveal yourself 😂 

yoga is amazing. Teaching and loving it. Do ya need a lesson? 


 
Posted : 09/06/2025 7:05 pm
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PJWinking
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@hotnsteamy Ya I hate the… I dont understand… whatever.


 
Posted : 09/06/2025 7:06 pm
Jackandfun
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@pjwinking I could use a yoga lesson


Fun and mutual respect

 
Posted : 09/06/2025 7:14 pm
PJWinking
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@jackandfun yaaaa?


 
Posted : 09/06/2025 7:49 pm
PhotoguyAB
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@pjwinking problem is that they do understand but play dumb when confronted.  I've never really understood what they think they are accomplishing.


 
Posted : 09/06/2025 10:49 pm
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