@7inchwondercock

Thank you for your reply and the clarification.

Yeah that actually sounds pretty awesome! Would love to join 

This would be so cool. How can I get in on the sexcapades?? 

So far no where near the numbers needed to even start planning .3 ladies and 7 guys interested. If I can get equal numbers. Say 8:8. And a 100% commitment. Then I'd start planning something. Need.more.interest 

We tried this within agroup,the Mrsand I were ap art of... It seemed wonderful in theory, but it devolved rapidl,with some women deciding after the start, to withdwaw ( which is their right) part way through th event, but the corresponding males did not._ My wife and another girl tried to help by taking 2 men, But all Hell fell apart. Women who opted out angry with their other arguments over who was with whome next. And th good ol' fashioned "no thank you" that left afew guys, with nothing or no one to do for extended periods of time. My feelers and self image took absd hit that night. But my model friend had the best night of his life.

Sounds overly ambitious, a bit like herding cats. Will fall apart in the first 10 min

@tiddlewink hence why so far it was just an idea. Whether it developed into the planning stage will wait to he seen. And yes. I am anticipating some being choosey and some tapping out. Which like you said. It'd their right to do so. Maybe I'll come up with some alternatives ..  just trying to get more people involved with making sw a super fun place. And being honest. Probably more of a fantasy to actually have this happen.  Lol. But again. Never know

 @7inchwondercock

Your better bet is whaturneout successful for us... Sex roulette. 8 couplesswho were all game to play with each other. Women were blind folded and layback in a circle. Men did a musical chairs march around them, when the music paused, the Men would gratify the woman in front of them.... Music played stopped played stopped. And so on.

The game went on until awoman could posativly Id their S.O.

Then the men donned the blind folds.

Was the best party we had at Hedo.

We also had a speed " mating "  night. 

Guys got a numberd card. Gathered name and intrests.

Girls got correponding cards. With the options...-Hug'em,...Kiss'em,... Suck'em,... or Fuck'em.

Gave agreat opportunity for people to see where they stood and with whome.

"Dance card" is another variation. Where all the women carried their " Dance card" reminiscent of days gone by. But instead of dances it was a list of sexual favors and positions. Icluding a few erotic but innocent non sexual options.  The women would fill the card with the names of the men, attending.  The only real rule being no guy can be in the same category on more than one card, as each " Dance" takes place simutaniously. There is amassive library of songs that exceed the 8 minute mark. Making 1 song per " Dance" acceptible.

A bit of history... Olden times Society dances and Debutante Balls, is where the phrase "my dance card is full"... Comes from. 

@tiddlewink - I would hope there is room for the single guys as well in this scenario, since some of us were the first to respond positively. I could see that same type of game work for singles and couples, and all mixed as long as the numbers were matched up for the game part. And there could even be some extras of both male and female, so that people could jump out for a break. Thoughts?

@Tiddlewink You have very interesting experiences.

It's all like hurting cats, very difficult. Even with just guys trying to arrange a group it's difficult. I just find that when my butt and I used to playpen and leave the door open after a while it appears eight people are in the room. LOL

Of course, that should read my bud and I LOL, I would say though that my buds butt is an attraction

Dam...speech to text... No cats were hurt during the herding or during any of the sexcapades. We did try using a chicken feather to make the experience sensual but decided to use the whole chicken to give it that kinky feeling lol

@str82it 

In Speed mating, and Dance card, both are excellent opportunity for mixed couples and singles. All genders and orientations, even odd numbers driving the desire to open upand communicate. Plus there is always room for a threesome category.