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Gloryhole etiquette I'm not understanding?

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Hello Guys, I'm only rly into gloryholes and always a bit a nervous wreck going there.

I have gone twice so far and sucked some so far but both times I went they kinda don't want to finish?? either they pulled out multiply times or stopped and asked to do more(which i don't want too).

Is there something I'm misunderstanding regarding gloryholes. Such as they cannot cum on the other person? or my i just that bad that never felt the urge too (that would suck xD)

If someone can clearly explain the whole etiquettes and motions people do. I tend to like have to speak up to let them know what I want as I don't understand the signals. 

I usually stop either when I'm tired or busted a nut (I lose all desire to cont. to do it after that. I do not get my dick sucked. I only want to suck via GL. nothing else)

Hope someone can help me understand this cuz the 2nd i went, i kinda wanted him to cum but it didnt end up that way...

thanks.

 
Posted : 23/02/2024 8:17 pm
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The most common explanation is that, the guy is not ready to unload yet. He could be just arrived and taking things at his pace. Most guys I think are feeling done when they burst their load. And so guys are still kinda enjoying to experience MORE before giving in their loads. Lucky for some people they can do multiple cums. I admire those guys who still have so much stamina. Just my thoughts. 

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Posted : 23/02/2024 8:31 pm
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You most likely aren't doing anything wrong. When I come to SW I like to spend about 3 or 4 hours. I like to edge and build up to a very nice orgasm when I come. I like to get sucked at the GH for a while, but most of the time I don't want to cum unless I am getting ready to leave. Lots of time I can cum twice in 3 or 4 hours, so will look to cum around an hour or so after I arrive and then again just before leaving. Not always possible as I don't always find someone to play with at those times.

However, if you were the one sucking, there is a chance that I would pull away before cumming. I actually see that a lot at SW and other bathhouses. It is not uncommon.

 
Posted : 23/02/2024 10:15 pm
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Someone really needs to show me where this glory hole place is. I love getting sucked long and often. I don’t have any sensation on the head of my cock so it takes a lot to make me cum orally 

 
Posted : 23/02/2024 10:28 pm
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@biguy Thanks for your understanding.
Just a question regarding your last part. Are you saying you would pull away because you want to edge/not cum. Or are you saying that you would pull away, cum in your stall and not on me?
Either way, I'd like to know if you would end up pulling away to finish inside your own stall and never on the GL person, is that how GL work? or you would end up finishing on the person in the GL if it was your time to leave.

Would I have to just keep going until I get the lucky encounter lol or just arrange a "random" time for the GL where the person knows to finish via prior talks in DM's (I do not want to see the actual person at all)

 

Thanks

 
Posted : 23/02/2024 11:02 pm
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@tallcanadian I can show you around... hehehe. One is the slurp ramp (public bj) . Then there's 2 cubicle just by the rectangular mirror. Then there's 2 more Gh cubicle connected to captain's room with bigger holes. Enough for you to see the ass of the person on the side if he decides to put his hole to it. Hehehe

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Posted : 23/02/2024 11:11 pm
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I was saying that if I pulled away, it was because I wanted to edge and not cum right away. If I was ready to cum then I would just cum. Would knock on the wall, or say that I was cumming in case you didn't want it in your mouth.

 
Posted : 24/02/2024 6:08 pm
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On a related note, if I wanted to do the sucking at the glory hole, would I just go behind and wait for a cock to come through?

 
Posted : 26/02/2024 9:49 am
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If you are in the playroom with the gloryhole ramp, just sit on the chair on the lower level and someone will eventually stick their cock through one of the holes from the top ramp. If you are in one of the glory hole rooms, just close the door and when someone comes into the room beside you, stick your fingers through the hole and wiggle them. That is the sign for them to stick their cock in the hole.

 
Posted : 26/02/2024 3:18 pm
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@biguy thanks for the info, I can do that!

 
Posted : 26/02/2024 3:27 pm
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@biguy Ohhhh so thats what the wiggling fingers meant! So i gotta be the one who does that for them to stick it in. I see. Thanks!

 
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