Hello everyone, I'm just wondering if I'm doing something wrong. Or if I'm coming off as pushy in my posts? I'm wondering if maybe posting 3-4 posts looking for different things was too much. I haven't gotten any replies on any of my posts for what I'm looking for. So I'm just wondering if I'm doing something wrong/ going about it the wrong way or coming off as pushy? Or is it maybe because no one is a match for what I'm looking for?? And not what I'm looking for? Just wondering why I haven't had much luck with finding what I'm looking for/ finding people that match what I'm looking for, if that makes any sense. Or am I being too aggressive/ pushy in looking for certain things. I'd like some feedback on why I'm maybe not finding what I'm looking for? Thank you.
Kelly
Here's what I would suggest go to SW get a room chill in the tub char up a few people get to know about the place and just because people don't comment doesn't mean anything I put post no one comments on and some do. While there just ask if someone if they would be interested a polite hello goes along way. And if someone is interested they will let you know. If you want to be with a woman your best bet would be on a Saturday and there are couple of post of guys bringing their sub. Be courteous and polite an im sure you will have a great time
@babygirl Thank you so much for your reply and advice, I do appreciate it. Unfortunately I'm extremely shy. And it takes me a long time to warm up to someone to talk to them, especially in person. From trauma that I've had. Which is why I was kind of hoping that someone would comment on one of my posts online. Or someone that I can meet there, that I feel comfortable with that can help introduce me to people. I have really bad social anxiety as well. But thank you, I do appreciate your reply and advice. Sounds good, thank you again Babygirl.
Being shy is fine. Even eye contact with soneone can break the ice. I was like that my first visit 6 years ago. And yes sometimes people take multiple posts as someone being too forward. Or desperate. (Not saying you are) but its just how some can take it. Moderation on posting. Is good.
Hope you enjoy your visit when you finally go. Sw os open and welcoming to all orientstions
7inch
Takes awhile to get comfortable, helps when it's a nice crowd but yes hottub chats are a huge part of it
Thong addict
Hi.
Im.coming for first time on Thursday 25. Lets connect.
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