So this is something that comes up often that I need to address. Please feel free to delete if inappropriate.
Attention Males, yes you. When you see that a pretty lady is thinking about attending don't blow up every means of communicating with them just to let them know that you will be attending to have your way with them. Let's break this down shall we.
1. Messaging saying you will be there shows your desperate, that your creepy, and that you only have one thing on your mind. @peachypie requires some intelligence and some conversation to get her fired up and raring to go. A simple message like, hey I'll be there isn't going to do it for her.
2. It makes women not feel safe and not want to come. For example @peachypie made one comment about possibly coming and now she's second guessing it because we've received several messages stating that they will be there to use her.
3. Women are not objects to be used for pleasure, albeit some women to thoroughly enjoy that, most require some communication to help them feel at ease and not like they are a piece of fresh meat walking through the market.
What I'm getting at is if you want a chance at playing with @peachypie just saying you'll be there isn't going to help your case and if you message that you'll be dropped to the bottom of the list immediately. Have some respect for the women that enjoy attending. Have conversations with them, find out what they are looking for and what their turn on and turn offs are and I can bet you you'll have a much greater chance than just saying "I'll be there tomorrow night" cause this makes @peachypie say" well I won't be now "
I usually say a simple, "I'll be there", but I do it as a comment on a forum post and not in a DM to a specific person because that's completely unnecessary. Don't be weird about it, guys.
If someone hasn't explicitly stated that they want to be used like a piece of meat, your chances are exponentially better with them if you simply assume that they do NOT, in fact, want to be used like a piece of meat. The fact is, most women appreciate being treated like... *gasp* human beings. Break the ice. Put in some minimal effort. For fuck's sake, what they want is incredibly easy to provide for anyone with the brain cells to rub together.
I hear a lot about the unrealistic expectations created by porn. For the longest time I just took that to mean, "Guys don't know shit about the importance of foreplay". And, while that's definitely true, there's an alarmingly high number of people that don't seem to realize the importance of basic decency, either 🤦♂️
SirHc & luv2peg87,
GREAT JOB trying to explain things to the “porn heads” that forgot most women and non binary folk enjoy that thing called etiquette as well as foreplay(verbal & physical). CHEERS FELLAS 👍🍻😎
Well said all.
Also don't forget the thirsty dudes who pm (other platform links in profiles) and post on older.posts that are FAR beyond being current and valid. Just shows how like you said desperate some guys are. I mean seriously replying to a.post.thays 3 months old hoping they're coming. Or hoping YOUR reply with me the one that gets them to come.in. that's just as tasteless
7inch
Very well said!
we couldn't agree more. If we haven't asked you to PM / DM / KIck us.. don't assume you can do so. That is why the forum exists.
@bisaskcouple or atleast introduce themselves and state what interested them in messaging.
@sirhc hi how are you im a 47 yr old single cd would you like to chat ?
@peachypie I would live to meet you and say hello doll! I absolutely adore latino woman!!
@peachypie hi peachy. I’m a big fan of voyeurism as well. Maybe we can connect and see what we have in common. Email is in my profile. Cheers
@makeba thank you so much for politely reaching out. I am not looking for ongoing play partners at this time. If we run into each other at steamworks and click that's fantastic. I usually let my interst be known by dropping compliments xo.
I agree with all said above!
I was there last night and I had the playpen room. I was inside with the jail barred window open and I was getting changed into a new outfit, minding my own business. I'm an exhibitionist. There was a guy who was 55ish who came and stood by the window and was jacking off. That's fine, that's why it's open. So I continued to mind my own business, and suddenly he said to me, "Do you play at the window or do you play in your room?". I looked at him kindof confused and said that I play in my room and not at the window. Without missing a beat, he said, "Oh alright then, I'll just come around to the door then...". And I said, oh no you won't, and asked him if this was his first time here (rookie first timer mistake?). He said that it was his second time here but there don't seem to be any women anywhere they're all in their rooms. So I sat down on the bed and explained to him that often women are too intimidated to come out of their rooms because men, such as himself, assume that we are going to have sex with them.l because we are physically present at the establishment. That men habitually objectify us and it's not alright, this needs to be a safe space for everyone TO FEEL SAFE IN. The guy then said to me that he was sorry, he saw me playing with other people so he assumed that I was playing that night. This of course just made me angrier. So I told him that it's his ENTITLED attitude that because I consent to one person performing a sex act with me that somehow that inherently means I am willing to do that act with anyone who shows up at any point in time I'm there like I'm doing them a favour??? That it's people like him that ruin it for women who come here and that that's why he's not seen any women here. Right after that, my friend @7inchwondercock showed up and I explained the situation at hand to my friend in front of this random dude. The guy ended up getting mad, storming halfway down the hall, coming back to the window to stammer and then getting mad again and leaving.
Dudes. Don't be fucking creeps. Stop following women around. Start with...a conversation that grasps her attention! Stimulate her intellect and she might just DECIDE to let you stimulate her elsewhere. Treat her like meat and you're just a part of the problem and the reason why WOMEN DON'T FEEL SAFE. STOP IT. And if a woman is talking to you, explaining her experience as a woman, maybe try listening and deciding to be part of the SOLUTION as opposed to whining like little bitches you ain't getting any pussy. Don't be gross, it's not hard.
Sheesh. Rant over.
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