I find a lot of guys are not into talking just fucking and sucking! Most are shy to chat but everyone is there for a release of some sort and escape from their reality, and actually communicating is not part of their fantasy. For the record yes I'm shy but if you start the conversation I will convers back with you, but the fantasy is no talking and whole lot of fucking and sucking.
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@sissy_cd01 yea I can totally understand that, don’t get me wrong I wasn’t there for the chitchat either. Perhaps I may have had a slight preconception of the atmosphere based on reading in the forums before coming the first time. (Not a lot of time reading on account of the discovery-same day visit). I was a bit nervous and very excited just to be in there but also felt perhaps a bit unprepared. Just to clarify I’m predominantly straight and it was my first time in such a situation with other men. I just thought maybe even the slightest bit of communication like even a nod or smile would have made it a bit more comfortable but like I said it was all so new that I’d like to visit again more prepared and hopefully with company.
I want some of that nice cock lol
@lucien15 - Hey bud, I am also a straight guy and have been there a few times looking to engage and find and give pleasure and I found many to be sullen and withdrawn. However, I also found that a quick smile or wave and a comment such as "Hi', or " Hi how are you?", goes a long way to ease what may be the same sentiment in others there. If I guy does approach for other than straight intentions, I simply say no thanks. It's friendly here on the forum because it's behind a screen, and for the most part, it also tells me that most on here, who show up there, are equally as friendly and just need a nudge to feel more comfortable. I hope you go back and find a different vibe next time. I'm sure the ladies will be happy you did 😉 Lol
Its quite possible you went on a day full of nervous new people.
Casual conversation is never a green light, although has been known in my experience to embolden the older Gents.
Daytime, especially nooners is often the time you find the closeted, casual or curious. As well as the lets go quick,... oops " I forgot to ask permission " before trying to blow you crowd. A VERY RARE occurance.
To get a real genuine feel for Steamworks, I recommend messaging @sirhc or chatting with @7inch. They can help you understand when and how, you would be able to introduce your wife to the environment. Its generally a much different experience when you are escorting your other half.
As for yourself solo, you Do have quite a desireable piece of equipment that is rather exeptional,and possibly intimidating. Being that you're straight if you get the creep vibe,... disarm it by just saying " Hello" "how are you today"
I personally have had better conversations than any Trysts, in all 7 years I've attended. But maybe its because I talk too much.
I would love to play with that beautiful cock!
Are you going on nov 25th ?
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