@luliloverr welcome Anna. 

you will likely get a lot of attention here, as there are a lot of single men and less single women 🙂 so the ratio is in your favour lol 🙂

there is no private message on this site so having a conversation about what you are looking for is challenging.  You can either just post here what you are hoping to find and experience, ask some questions about first experiences, or of course go back through some posts  and see what others have said. 

you can put your contact info in your profile - use a private chat app like kik or snap, or email - if you want to have outside contact with others.  My recommendation for most women visiting the first time is perhaps find someone to go with or meet that you are comfortable with, as it most women suggest its a bit overwhelming first time. You get a lot of attention 🙂  

Thursdays and Saturdays are best for the most amount of couples and women also in attendance. Anything else, just ask. 

@thisguy Thank you I appreciate it. 

Ratio seems perfect😉 However I am looking for more one on one play or perhaps 2 or 3 men. Depending what I find. No private message is unfortunate. I will make a new Kik and insert in my bio. Thank you🙂 I am a little intimidated, read some posts about men following. Is that true? 

I hope to meet couples - not for play necessarily as I am not bi but can help talks lol conversations with older men are not always easy. Will this be possible? Also I am concerned there will not be a lot of younger women - if you have been there are there many? 

Thank you for your response thisguy. 

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@thisguy Thank you I appreciate it. 

 

Ratio seems perfect😉 However I am looking for more one on one play or perhaps 2 or 3 men. Depending what I find. No private message is unfortunate. I will make a new Kik and insert in my bio. Thank you🙂 I am a little intimidated, read some posts about men following. Is that true? 

I hope to meet couples - not for play necessarily as I am not bi but can help talks lol conversations with older men are not always easy. Will this be possible? Also I am concerned there will not be a lot of younger women - if you have been there are there many? 

Thank you for your response thisguy. 

your welcome 😀 

like i said, most women i've gotten to know there all felt very nervous and intimidated the first time - but also excited. they go hand in hand. i don't post this to scare you away, but yes men follow around. think of it this way - its a sex club, it has a "permissive" atmosphere, so they are going to go where you are and hope to either see something, or get a chance to join whatever you are doing. its awkward and odd, but don't let it keep you away. like i said, having someone to go around with will help keep that in check. 

the hottub is "neutral zone" so a great place to hang out and meet people no pressure.  getting there before 6-7 means you can likely get a room, and have a place to escape to for space, or to take someone back to for private one on one. 

if you're thinking public displays turn you on, you will draw a crowd for sure. just be open about boundaries, who can touch and who can't etc. 

i have kik on my profile if you want to talk more, no pressure or expectations.  my snap is ejm7474

@thisguy Appreciate it. I can be shy lol but will try to connect beforehand. Still waiting for a couple to reach out - can help with my nerves. 

Yes will go by the hot tub to meet some men or couples. 

I made a kik - yunggirl6969. Will msg now🙂

Appreciate it. 

all good. hope your introduction is smooth. 

Hey there! If you do come out tomorrow evening, I will be there as well. I have lots of tattoos (a leg sleeve, arm sleeve, chest piece). Feel free to strike up a conversation if you see me! I can show you around or help you find your way around! 

Hope you have a great night!

@cheble Sure 👍 this will be my first time visiting Steamworks. Will definitely drink some pineapple juice in the morning. 😂

@luliloverr have a great night tomorrow! My first visit a few weeks ago was amazing 😌 I had a lot of fun! Also @thisguy thank you for always being so helpful and supportive 👍🏼😊

@cheble Will definitely do! See you tomorrow

@misskarenina Thank you! So glad your visit was great. Yes @thisguy thank you.

@misskarenina Did you have a kik account we could connect on?

@luliloverr it’s Jaxx1110 feel free to text me on there 🙂

So you'll get there. Proceed to the top floor. (entrance is in the back of the building) you'll pay. Enter. You'll go to your room. (ladies automatically get a room). Change. You are given a towel to wear.

Attire options.

Being fully clothed not recommended. (could be mistaken as staff)

Could go naked.

Naked with towel covering you

Lingerie or BDSM outfit

When your in your room. Closed doors mean privacy. Knocking not allowed. If someone knocks and you see who it is. Tell staff. Knocking gets them thrown out asap.

Door rules.

Again closed doors. Do not disturb

Door open a crack and normally an invite to watch.

Door completely open. Is taken as invite to join in room.

While in the club. Main floor has bathrooms. Play areas. Private rooms. And lounging area (no sex in lounging area) a glory hole wall. A public fuck hole. Couple private fuck holes. Glory hole booths.

Downstairs has steam room. Dry sauna. Seating area. Hot tub. Showers. Water fountain couple bathrooms / douche stalls. And a play room with a bed and tvs (porn)

Staff should be able to give you a guided tour provided they're not swamped with check ins. Check outs. Or cleaning duties

I do recommend bringing a partner as a single lady can quickly become overwhelmed. Free condoms are provided. You can purchase lube and toys from the staff.

Get your bearings. Walk around. Explore the club. If you want to strike up conversation. Good places to start are lounge area. And hot tub. (MANDATORY showers before entering hot tub )

Club is in the process of revamping entrance system to try to weed out any and all aggressive guys to make this a safe place for all. (STILL a work in progress).

There will of course be guys that will follow you around. Some will approach for fun. Some will just watch. If you tell them your not interested. Or not ready to play most will back off. For those who press. Tell staff asap. If you have followers. And have asked them to stop. Or said not interested and they continue. That's considered stalking. Again tell staff. Not allowed.

ZERO tolerance for drugs / alcohol / pay for play arrangements. Violators will be told to leave right away.

If you choose to use one of the fuck holes it's highly recommended to have someone stand by watching all the men use condoms (if required) some guests like it without. Some with. Be sure to CLEARLY state your wants wishes and limits.

The biggest thing. NO MEANS NO

Cameras are allowed in private rooms. With consent of everyone in the room. They are not allowed in public areas. Or play areas. Again violators will be told to leave.

I may have missed some but I hope this helps you

Welcome. The only thing nobody told you was to bring cash. They have a atm inside

but cash only.