There are lots of people that are hesitant to go.  But the best thing I can suggest is go there. If you're a smoker park in the parking lot. Have a smoke you know that'll help chill your nerves then make your way up the stairs pay to get in once you're inside. You should be a little better for nerves cuz you're already in. If it's your first time you definitely want to get a room so that it'll also help your nerves. You have a private area to sit down then you don't have to start having fun immediately. Just cruise around, get your bearings and maybe go downstairs. Have a quick shower jump in the hot tub or the steam room or the dry sauna. You know just a climatize yourself get used to everything and then once you're nerves are better and you've struck up a conversation. Good place to do that is in the hot tub. Just general conversation. Get to know some people around you know. Get some pointers and then go have fun!

If you get approached by anyone but you're not ready to have fun, just tell them you know I'm just cruising for now not looking for anything. Thank you but no thank you and if anyone doesn't give up or anything or continues to you know try and pressure you into anything just say no. If they still don't understand, go tell Stephanie because we do not put up with aggressiveness. We do not put up with anything respect as number one. Can send his number two and the biggest thing that we have is no means. No, anyone who violates those will get one warning and then be removed from the club so there's no pressure at all

Sorry I'm using voice to text right now. There's a few parts that were wrong. Stephanie is definitely wrong. That was meant to say staff 

I completely understand. I often tell people how my first time at Steamworks was just chilling in the parking lot and leaving 😅

Taking the plunge CAN be intimidating, until you're in. Once I was inside, I felt a lot more relaxed. You see that most folks are at ease and it puts you at ease, too.