My wife and I visited Steamweorks our first time on Saturday (March 16th) around 10:00pm. I wanted to give feedback / review because we'd love to visit this place again but in its current state, I don't think I could convince my wife too. I am sorry if this is a little long, but being a business owner myself, I know feedback is golden from your customers. I hope management appreciates the time we took in writing this.
Here is a short run down of our experience.
We told the worker who greeted us we had never been here and would like a tour, he said they were way to busy, which was fine. We got paid up for a private room which was great. However the first red flag for us was no explanation about the rules whatsoever. Telling him we were new, I would have thought he'd do a complete run down of the rules. This is pretty common in the other clubs we go too. They talk about consent, their phone policy etc. If we weren't told the rules, how do we know everyone else knows the rules? This was dis-concerning. He told us to wait in the lobby, but didnt even tell us where the lobby was, so being nervous as first timers, wasn't a great entry experience.
After a bit of a wait, we got to our room and it felt very dingy and run down. To feel comfortable being naked / doing sexual activities, my wife wants a feeling of cleanliness, which this place did not give off at all. As we explored this feeling was only reinforced, with my wife uncomfortable to even sit or do anything pretty much anywhere. When we explored downstairs to the hot tub area, and went in the back where there was a bed with barely any light, my wife couldn't help thinking that this is exactly what a sex trafficking place would look like. She doesn't say this to be mean, this is honestly how she felt and knows this obviously isn't what SW would want or intend.
As we continued to walk around we ran into a lot of creepy men in this place. They would follow her around, or just patrol the place looking for people to watch. I understand that is kind of the point for some, but this can be done in a more respectful way. These creepy men are definitely preventing more women from coming to this place along with the dingy atmosphere. It was a complete sausage fest when we were there as well. Maybe 5 women max, to probably 30+ men. If you want more women, you need to limit the amount of single men, and ban the creepy ones flat out.
My wife wanted to leave by now, but I convinced her to stay and try and give the place a chance. We ran into some really nice people later on. We spoke to a few guys that were respectful, had pleasant conversation, asked if my wife wanted to play, and respected the 'no' immediately without issue. One of these people we talked to agreed with our assessment of this place overall. After lots of walking around, I finally convinced my wife lets do something in the wet steam room, which she agreed to in the very corner. BTW one part of the steam room is almost pitch black, which did not make her feel safe either. Before no time at all one of the 'patrolling' men came right up to us, however he was polite and asked if he could watch. This was nice to see and we agreed. After we finished we turned around and saw 3 more men watching who didn't ask which bothered my wife, one of them coming off quite creepy as well.
My wife then wanted to leave, as she just couldn't feel sexy in that place at all.
Suggested improvements from my wife, especially if you want more women showing up.
- Better lighting. It is way too dark, with some areas almost feeling dangerous. If she was here alone, she would not feel safe in some spots for sure.
- Get proper bedding that don't look like they are from a prison.
- Place needs a serious cleaning, and removal of the 'dingy' feeling.
- Consent should be asked to watch if you are right up close. Obviously if you are in the playpen or have your door open and people are standing back, that is probably fine. But we had men come right close up to us and not say a word. Just creepy.
- Rules should be posted throughout the place, and fully explained to new members.
- More Roaming staff should be there to enforce rules and for people's safety, especially women.
- Charge more money. I know our suggestions are expensive, 'build it and they will come'. This place should be $100 bucks per person, with discounts to attract females. Use the money to renovate and upgrade the overall 'feel'.
Oasis Aqua lounge in Toronto is what we were hoping this place would similar too. Fly out there and check it out! Its amazing, and if SW was more like that, we'd be coming every weekend!
I'll end with some positives!
- Easy to find
- Saturday was ladies special, so wasn't very expensive to get a private room with the wife
- The private room rental idea is awesome! Never seen this before in a Sex Club / LS Club.
- Relatively friendly greeting at the door.
- Huge faciality which despite overall atmosphere, was fun to explore!
- Hot Tub, Wet and dry Sauna!
- Met a handful of very friendly people
Please feel free to ask any additional information or clarification. We think this place has a ton of potential!
Posted : 18/03/2024 5:38 pm